Monday, March 30, 2009
Cooking!
My great homestay
At an animal shelter, there were a lot of dogs and cats that people didn't need or lost. They were in a narrow corridor, and barked as they asked our help when we came. I have a dog, so I was much affected by their appeal, and learned the sorrowful fact. I thought I cherish my dog more. After that, we went to their house. I was surprised because their house looked like Japanese house, and they have many Japanese things. It made me comfortable. I served them powdered green tea as I belong to the tea ceremony club. They love many kinds of tea, so they were very pleased, and I was also glad. Then, Lloyd served us Chinese tea. It was a little bitter and strong, but it tasted good. At night, we went to the theater to watch a movie named "Marley and me." It was difficult for me to watch the movie in English, but I could understand by context. Watching a movie in English is good practice to study English.
Super Nice Home Stay
Sunday, March 29, 2009
Can you imagine?
I've been to Australia and stayed with an Australian family for two weeks when I was 14. All friends who went there together enjoyed talking with their host family. But unfortunately, my host family didn't like talking with me. I was really lonely and I missed "my family."
To tell the truth, I was little worried about this homestay weekend because of the experience. Can you imagine? How fantastic my American host family was! My worry was totally silly! They were very kind and gentle. They talked with me a lot. For them, Satomi and I were the first Japanese students they've ever had, so they didn't know so many things about Japan. They enjoyed our Japanese dinner, souvenirs, cultual differences, etc. I'm really impressed with their treatment for us. They showed us many placees downtown Spokane, went to a church together, taught us how to make bread (host father used to be a cook!), etc.
Homestay!!
Saturday, March 28, 2009
The great family
Friday, March 27, 2009
I miss my hostfamily.
My second family.
What do you think ?
Thursday, March 26, 2009
To Have Own Opinions
'Do you think that children should always obey their parents? Why or why not?'
In my opinion, I don't think children need to obey every time, otherwise they won't know how to express their feelings and thoughts. It seems that the situation could be worse if children are not free to do whatever they want. As you watched 'The Painted Lady', Blanche went crazy finally. She must have been tired of being a good daughter. I guess that's because of her dad, and he didn't rescue her so she became such a crazy woman. This shows that just following parents' opinion is not a very good idea. To have self confidence is also significant even though it is for parents. After they listen or know what the kids would love to do, they can still consider what kind of advice or suggestions might fit them. To share opinions is better than just making children obey parents' opinions. Through my experience, I appreciate my mom, because she understands me very much and never makes me just obey her opinion. She listens to my thoughts and feelings, and if it's not okay, she puts me in a correct way. We have an argument as well, though. I really wish Blanche's dad were like my mom. Anyway, that's the reasons I don't think it is a good way for children to obey their parents all the time.
Relationship
Is My Mom Everything?
Too Much Attention
I think father's attitude to two of his daughters was a little different. Blanche Sweet was a "good daughter" and she always obeyed her father. She didn't put any makeup on and didn't have a boyfriend. On the other hand, the modern sister who had general father/daughter relationship wore makeup all the time and she was attractive. She was totally different from her sister. Perhaps the father should have treated his daughters the same way, but it was difficult. If the father told Blanche something, she did whatever her father hoped and decided, but another one didn't listen to him and did whatever she liked. So the father seemed to give up to tell something to his modern daughter. But Blanche was a perfect daughter for him, so he cared about Blanche too much. I think "too much attention" was the thing that was different from modern father/daughter relationships.
For being beautiful!
My great host family!!!
female beauty
Obey our parents?
relationship between father and daughter
I think their relationship is not so different from modern father and daughter's relationship. I think it's a natural thing that father care about his daughter eagerly. Of course my father also care about me and give warnings so often. However, I know the reason why he acts like that. The reason was that because he loves me a lot! A long time ago, I hated to hear his warnings, but now I appreciate him saying things like that. I respect him and I love him. I want to marry a man like my father. I wonder did Blanche have the same thinking for her father. I think she did not respect him, but just feared him. I know her father loved her a lot, but it was too strict. My father regarded my opinion, so I can try many things. I think his too strict care caused her sad death.
The generation gap
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
good appearance
Tuesday, March 24, 2009
different way of thinking
Follow your own value!
I don't think that children need to obey all the time. Even parents can make mistakes sometimes, so we should follow our own value. They can be too strict because they love their children. In my case for example, I wanted to accept an exchange student as a hostfamily when I was in jr.high school. I really wanted to know another culture and the way of thinking. I was a kind of volunteer, but I thought it would be a great experience for me. It was a easy way to talk with foreigners. my parents however, never allowed me to be a hostfamily. They told me that our house was too small to host a overseas student. I was completely against them. In my opinion, we don't host them but accept them as a family member. We don't need a big, gorgeous house, we need a welcome heart and curiosity about another culture. I told my parents that again and again but they didn't change their mind. My parents might not have any interests in learning a new country so much. It was really important for me to touch different culture. I couldn't be a hostfamily because it was my parents' house of course, but I joined ESS club. Sometimes parents and children have different opinions. Parents can give advice to their parents, but children decide what they do. It's a little bit hard, but I ask to myself if it is my opinion or not so that I won't regret at all.
My parents' generation and my generation.
Hi Gang!
Monday, March 23, 2009
Precious memory in the US
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Miss Them Already!
American family
Friday, March 20, 2009
Sharing Differences, Learning Many!!!
Wednesday, March 18, 2009
The Great Opportunity
My first Homestay
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
sister Rose
First Visit
Monday, March 16, 2009
The great oppotunity to talking!
Knowing each country
Can you find it?-Mt. Rainer
Vickie
She is very kind and she let us to have cocoa, ice cream, pop corn, etc. every time we visit her. And she has lived in Seattle, so she loves Seattle ! She has difficulty with her walking, but she always waits us at the entrance of Holy Names. She speaks very clear English, so it’s really easy to understand.
I haven’t taken a photo with her yet, so I want do so next time and show you her lovely smile :)
Yoko